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Author Archive: Hairo Aguilera

Women and What They Mean; It’s a Trap!

Rose girl

I heard of this thing about women saying completely different things from what they mean. Although this may in fact be common knowledge and we can easily just put it off as, “wmen r hrd 2 undrstnd hur dur”, let’s take a quick internet minute to unravel this so called “complexity” of them. I heard …

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Sex on the First Date: Don’t Do It

Carnival at night

Lol wut? Some of you might be saying right now, “Whoa, this is a sensitive topic for me…” Oh, never mind. This is the internet. You probably see sexual references on Facebook alone. But most of the guys (and maybe girls) would probably say, “The sooner I have sex with the person, the better!” Hold …

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My past Story! On the Phone: Great. On Our Date: Terrible

Clouds and ropes

So today, I’m going to tell you a true story that happened many years ago. I was selling make-up kits on the streets (I didn’t do so well, by the way) with other people when I met this cute girl. I was in a suit when we met. I proceeded to get her number and …

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Your Eyes and Your Attraction: Using What You Got

Girl staring at you

You would probably think by the title, “F this. I know how to look into people’s eyes. You’re so basic and just want visitors and attention!” But that’s not the case, because that same basic knowledge of eye contact has been disintegrating as more and more people are looking at their smart phones and forgetting …

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Taking Her out on Her First Date; Just Anywhere?

Fifth Avenue

First expression is everything (cliche), as much as I don’t sometimes like it simply because I believe in infinite chances and the fact that if I mess up, I’m done. This is not always true when they see you try your best, is honest, and doing it for her; it’s the thought that counts. But …

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Money and Relationships; How the Two Really Mash Up!

Mansion on a Hill

When people think of money, they probably think of the long hours it takes to make it. Or that it’s never enough. Hard to get. Always getting spent. There are the few who think quite the opposite; they think there are an abundance of them and that they get rewarded with lots of them every …

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Moving in to Your Lover’s Foreign Country; Should You?

Bridge to Island

I read horror stories after horror stories of couple from different countries never meeting but have desires to move in with each other. Whoa. Like, meet the freaking person first and see if he or she is even a fit. Excuse me, I need to go pray. Oops, lost some readers. Too controversial. Anyways, if …

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Like a Person from Another Country? Got the Cash for It?


As more and more people connect all over the world, chances are pretty good that you’ve spoken to an attractive person with some relatable and interesting profile. Although very few people probably do this, you may have even started a romantic relationship online (even if the person lives over 2,000 miles away!). Nothing wrong with …

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When a Woman Leaves You; Is It You or Her?

Girl's back

So you talked to this girl and you guys liked each other. Things went well, but then she doesn’t call or text you anymore. When you do call and she happens to pick up, all of a sudden it seems like you’re taking up her time. How did this happen? A while ago, she was calling …

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Being in a Fake Relationship: Don’t Kid Yourself

Golden Gate Bridge

I have a good friend (nice guy, very talkative) and he’s been heart-broken before because of a four year relationship he got out of. His ex-girlfriend cheated on him. As I already knew as the act of “rebounding”, he immediately ask a girl out to be his. Then, like eating Italian one night and eating Chinese …

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